{"id":14930,"date":"2013-07-01T12:28:21","date_gmt":"2013-07-01T16:28:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sidebarforplaintiffs.naomifein.net\/?p=14930"},"modified":"2013-07-01T12:28:21","modified_gmt":"2013-07-01T16:28:21","slug":"going-to-court-as-a-victim-of-abuse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sidebarforplaintiffs.naomifein.net\/?p=14930","title":{"rendered":"Going to court as a victim of abuse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday&#8217;s New York Times Magazine&#8217;s Modern Love column, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2013\/06\/30\/fashion\/the-view-from-the-victim-room-modern-love.html?pagewanted=all&amp;amp;_r=0\">&#8220;The View From the Victim Room,&#8221; <\/a>was powerful for a number of reasons.<\/p>\n<p>Courtney Queeney, the author, was badly beaten by a boyfriend. Her story is terrifically written, deeply perceptive, gripping and emotionally resonant.<\/p>\n<p>After calling the Chicago police, Queeney goes to Domestic Violence Court for a protective order. She describes her experiences with the Chicago police and in court (where there&#8217;s a &#8220;victim room&#8221; of her title, a room she never had to be in) \u2014 quite different from what most of us would expect to hear from an abused woman.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday&#8217;s New York Times Magazine&#8217;s Modern Love column, &#8220;The View From the Victim Room,&#8221; was powerful for a number of reasons. Courtney Queeney, the author, was badly beaten by a boyfriend. 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