{"id":36390,"date":"2018-01-23T13:05:03","date_gmt":"2018-01-23T18:05:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sidebarforplaintiffs.naomifein.net\/?p=36390"},"modified":"2018-01-23T13:05:03","modified_gmt":"2018-01-23T18:05:03","slug":"communicating-with-the-lawyer-how-not-to-behave-if-you-date-one","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sidebarforplaintiffs.naomifein.net\/?p=36390","title":{"rendered":"Communicating with the Lawyer: how not to behave if you date one"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kevin Underhill&#8217;s Lowering the Bar has an occasional series called Assorted Stupidity, which he numbers.<\/p>\n<p>Today, a case he cites at #110 brings up the important bit of etiquette inscribed in the title, above.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mc-toc-title\" style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Assorted Stupidity #110<\/em><\/h2>\n<h4 style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Jan 22, 2018 10:15 am | Kevin<\/em><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/loweringthebar.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/LTB-default-777x437.jpg?fit=300%2C169\" alt=\"LTB logo\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>It\u2019s not always easy for lawyers to date: they work long hours, are under a lot of stress, and are lawyers. Also, it can be hard to meet people, or at least people who won\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/loweringthebar.us5.list-manage.com\/track\/click?u=d34db4689a16c24346a1474e2&amp;id=ae6d2d0fc2&amp;e=b27870a939\" rel=\"nofollow\">drink too much and then trash your multi-million-dollar art collection<\/a> when you try to kick them out of your house. Allegedly.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kevin Underhill&#8217;s Lowering the Bar has an occasional series called Assorted Stupidity, which he numbers. Today, a case he cites at #110 brings up the important bit of etiquette inscribed in the title, above. Assorted Stupidity #110 Jan 22, 2018 &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/sidebarforplaintiffs.naomifein.net\/?p=36390\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[337],"tags":[2659,1579,30,699],"class_list":["post-36390","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-legal-news","tag-dating-lawyers","tag-kevin-underhill","tag-lawyers","tag-lowering-the-bar"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t<!-- All in One SEO 4.9.10 - aioseo.com -->\n\t<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Kevin Underhill&#039;s Lowering the Bar has an occasional series called Assorted Stupidity, which he numbers. Today, a case he cites at #110 brings up the important bit of etiquette inscribed in the title, above. 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