{"id":6470,"date":"2012-02-20T15:40:19","date_gmt":"2012-02-20T20:40:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sidebarforplaintiffs.naomifein.net\/?p=6470"},"modified":"2012-10-17T15:20:03","modified_gmt":"2012-10-17T19:20:03","slug":"what-can-you-do-when-your-lawyer-ignores-you-part-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sidebarforplaintiffs.naomifein.net\/?p=6470","title":{"rendered":"What can you do when your lawyer ignores you? 3"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bringing you up to date:<\/p>\n<p>On February 4 I introduced you to Part 1 of the problems \u2014 penultimate, I fervently hope \u2014 I&#8217;ve faced in getting Dinkes &amp; Schwitzer, the personal injury lawyers representing my broken metatarsal, to respond to its owner, me. I signed settlement documents in November and was now receiving information from Medicare that needed to be responded to. By, I assumed, my lawyers. I mean, you know. They <em>are<\/em> my lawyers working on this case, right?<\/p>\n<p>But my lawyers did not return my e-mails. So I did all the work for Medicare myself.<\/p>\n<p>I followed up with Part 2 on February 9, in which I published the entire letter I sent to William Schwitzer, the name partner in the law firm.<\/p>\n<p>My post ended ended with a question: &#8220;<em>Now<\/em> do you think I heard from these people? You bet I did.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sidebar advice<\/strong>: A long time ago, when I worked for Malcolm Forbes, I learned that if you have problems with an entity, <em>always<\/em> write directly to the CEO, the head of the firm. Don&#8217;t ever settle for contacting the VP of Angry Customers, or whoever. Go right to the top.<\/p>\n<p>My brother fine-tuned the methodology. When his wife was having problems with the Big Bank whose CEO was Walter Wriston, my brother, a young curmudgeon, sat down at his typewriter and wrote a series of letters addressed &#8220;Dear Walt.&#8221; It got results.<\/p>\n<p>So a few days after I sent that letter directly to Schwitzer, I received a series of phone messages from a Dinkes paralegal, on the order of, &#8220;This is [blank]. Could you please call me about your case.&#8221; Around the third message, she was sounding kind of nervous.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t return her calls \u2014 I was (genuinely) out \u2014 for several reasons. First, although I can control my anger when I write, I&#8217;m not always sure about what will happen when I speak to someone directly, mid-anger. I needed a hiatus in which to cool down.<\/p>\n<p>Second, my experience with Dinkes&#8217;s paralegals has not been encouraging; her inability to respond fully to my concerns would, I knew, exacerbate my irritation.<\/p>\n<p>Third, she doesn&#8217;t deserve my anger: her bosses do. As an ex-law firm worker, I had clients take out their frustrations, angers and pain on me. I was empathetic, yes, but it was their lawyers who should have been listening to them and responding.<\/p>\n<p>And fourth, I felt my letter made it pretty clear that I now expected one of the partners to deal with me directly; I had had enough of the endlessly shifting associates, the &#8220;he&#8217;s no longer with the firm&#8221; associates, and the not fully knowledgeable (and endlessly shifting) paralegals.<\/p>\n<p>So I did not return those calls.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Next<\/strong>: What can you do when your lawyer ignores you? 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