{"id":7293,"date":"2012-03-12T16:15:21","date_gmt":"2012-03-12T20:15:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sidebarforplaintiffs.naomifein.net\/?p=7293"},"modified":"2012-03-17T12:11:00","modified_gmt":"2012-03-17T16:11:00","slug":"how-to-find-a-lawyer-the-first-thing-not-to-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sidebarforplaintiffs.naomifein.net\/?p=7293","title":{"rendered":"Finding a lawyer: The first thing NOT to do"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My own lawyer asked that I give you this piece of advice here on <strong>Sidebar<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<p>When you call a lawyer for the first time, <strong>do not ask her for legal advice on the telephone.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Presumably you&#8217;re calling because you&#8217;re worried, you think you have a legal problem, maybe a lawsuit. The lawyer you&#8217;re calling probably doesn&#8217;t know anything about you and can&#8217;t evaluate your situation during a telephone call.<\/p>\n<p>And won&#8217;t give you legal advice during that first-time call. What she might do is listen to you. And she might ask some questions, if she&#8217;s hearing something about your situation that might fit into her specialty.<\/p>\n<p>She might. Or she might not.<\/p>\n<p>But she will never give you advice. How could she? She doesn&#8217;t know enough about your situation\u00a0\u2014 and is unlikely to be getting a full picture on a short telephone call.<\/p>\n<p>The first legal advice she is likely to give you is: make an appointment. For which she will probably charge you a fee, yes.<\/p>\n<p>(I was once asked by a woman acquaintance if I could recommend a lawyer who could help her. Her landlord was trying to evict her from a rent-controlled apartment [for good reason, as it happened]. The woman was a sort of elderly flower-child kind of person. Or, rather, she liked to present herself as a dithery flower child. And she was certainly elderly.<\/p>\n<p>I told her I did know a really good lawyer. &#8220;Would I have to pay him?&#8221; she asked in her wispy, helpless, pitiful little voice.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Of course,&#8221; I snapped. &#8220;What do you think, lawyers are supposed to practice law for nothing?&#8221;)<\/p>\n<p>The primary reason a lawyer will require a face-to-face meeting is to evaluate you and your situation, do some legal research and decide whether you have a case and whether she wants to take it.<\/p>\n<p>She will not tell you over the phone that yes, you have a case. She will not tell you over the phone what you should do about your case.<\/p>\n<p>So don&#8217;t ask. 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