{"id":9354,"date":"2012-07-09T18:50:31","date_gmt":"2012-07-09T22:50:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sidebarforplaintiffs.naomifein.net\/?p=9354"},"modified":"2015-08-13T14:11:53","modified_gmt":"2015-08-13T18:11:53","slug":"filing-a-grievance-against-a-lawyer-answering-the-response-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sidebarforplaintiffs.naomifein.net\/?p=9354","title":{"rendered":"Filing a grievance against a lawyer 8: answering the response"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been responding to the statements made by a lawyer retained by Dinkes &amp; Schwitzer,\u00a0 who answered my complaint\/grievance to the Disciplinary Committee.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been a lot more work than I imagined it would be. Because there is so much I disagree with. For one thing, you know I&#8217;m not a lawyer, right? I&#8217;m a layman, probably just like you. The man who answered my complaint<em> is<\/em> a lawyer.<\/p>\n<p>But my complaint \u2014 which, as I advised you and everyone to do when writing a complaint \u2014 was modest, unexaggerated, precise and stripped of emotion. Yet the answer I&#8217;m responding to is anything but. It makes big gestures and indulges in a few personal attacks upon me and my narrative. He (the lawyer who wrote it) sneered at my memory, called what I wrote &#8220;hyperbole.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Suggesting that my memory has faded is an especially awkward mistake: not only have I compiled a day by day fact chronology, I have this, the blog, to support my contemporaneous recital of the events. I&#8217;m now playing with the idea of printing out every blog post that refers to this unfortunate series of inadequate lawyer-client communications, and including these as an exhibit in support of my story.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, maybe not. Maybe I&#8217;ll just give the Disciplinary Committee my url and tell them what to search for.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m really startled. Instead of defending his client&#8217;s ethics, this guy is accusatory. And in being so, he opens up the field to my like response, even as his statements open up big holes in his defensive reasoning. So I find I&#8217;m pulling out my entire writerly and intellectual arsenal in answering him. And I <em>am<\/em> answering him, page by page, paragraph by paragraph, phrase by phrase. I wager I can out-sarcasm him any day of the week.<\/p>\n<p>I say all this not to brag (although I guess I am bragging) but as a bit of further advice: if you do file a grievance against a lawyer, prepare yourself to be attacked. It&#8217;s yet another reason to strip your complaint of personal accusations. Just narrate the actual events.<\/p>\n<p>Because I think there&#8217;s a universal truth here. The Goliath who wields huge legal weapons against one little David layman is a gentleman who protests way, way too much.<\/p>\n<p>And if<em> I&#8217;ve<\/em> noticed, I&#8217;ll bet the Disciplinary Committee will also notice.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been responding to the statements made by a lawyer retained by Dinkes &amp; Schwitzer,\u00a0 who answered my complaint\/grievance to the Disciplinary Committee. It&#8217;s been a lot more work than I imagined it would be. 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